I’ve been seeing a guy from my past I saw for maybe a month or so, he did something I really didn’t like and I broke it off back then. He asked for another chance recently after I just got out of a situation with a guy i’m still in love with. Said guy is not open to working it out, but i’m still in love with him. This most recent guy has stepped up to the plate and has been doing everything right but... I can’t say I see myself with him and always think of the other guy when i’m with him and compare what he does to what the other would have done. I feel guilty because he’s a great guy and he’s everything I asked for in other areas, but when I think of marriage.. it’s not what I pictured. I also feel that maybe i’m not giving him a chance. I’m still in love with the other and I know if he were willing to work it out it’s where I would be in a snap of a finger. Given he’s closed off to working it out, I don’t wanna just wait around for what may never be again. He and I have had a pretty back and forth relationship and it’s been 2 year and we somehow manage back with one another, idk this will be the case though. I want to move on and stop waiting, but no matter who I try with... I always still want him and would leave them for him. I’m not sure what the right thing to do is even though it may be obvious to others?