Hello there, I have an appt with a new doctor, my old one is awesome but he prefers to not handle “geriatric patients. I’ll be 36 on the 27th of Aug. He has seen me fluctuate in weight from 345 to 190 back to 285 and says he knows I’m healthy but I’m just not getting the help I need for TTC. Just says “go for it” well here I am 43 days of my cycle after Birth Control and nothing’s happening, keeps referring me to specialists

The new doctor does it all in office, I’m basically trying it out right now. Not completely leaving my office until I know if I want to. However...with that said I am worried about the new doctor making me feel bad bc I’m plus and TTC. I have been diligently trying to lose and my body just won’t have it. I’m so mentally just drained. I am so scared that this doctor isn’t going to be able to look past my body.

Any advice on how to approach this appt with confidence and not seem down and out?

Attached are a few pics of me at our wedding in October and on our honeymoon.