So while the baby stayed up till 2 o’clock. I was creeping on my husbands Facebook messages...never a good thing, right? Well, apparently he was messaging several girls, he also was sweet talking to one girl with big boobs out in California and mentioned how he wanted to meet up when he gets stationed there. Then apparently he came to the state I was living in to see his daughter and never told me...this was a month into our relationship. He also told big boob girl that he was finalizing his divorce in August when it wasn’t finalized till the first week of November. If he cans do The state I was living in, it only means he was staying with his ex wife or at least seeing her everyday. It kinda explains why his ex harassed me for months telling me that they were trying to work it out. I never understood why she kept saying that. We eventually moved in, in October and still was harassing me.

Then I also read a message between his friend and his friend was like “go look for some whores.” And his response was “I’m trying to...all while we were dating.

Note, that when we first met, he and his friends said he was single. Then I found out that he was married bc his ex wife (wife at the time) called me randomly using his phone at 3 am in the morning. Yes, I cut things off when she asked me to and the next day he told me the “truth” and wanted to be with me. I was 20 then and super gullible. I feel so stupid. And before you guys start judging as to why I dated a married man, I didn’t know. And when I found out I confronted him and it and believed him when he told me he was separated and going through a divorce. At the time my uncle was going through a divorce and dating his now wife. I thought it’d be socially acceptable.

Now, we’re 9 years in and 2 kids. Would this bother you guys?