My father cheated on my mother

I'm devastated right now. My parents have been together 31 years and always seemed like they had the perfect relationship. My mum worshipped the ground my dad walked on.

Growing up they had similar childhoods, both their fathers we're abusive and cheated on their mothers regularly.

My mum got a message today off a random bloke with screenshots and pictures of my dad and another woman. He was telling her he loved her and couldn't wait to be with her full time and of her stuff. My mum immediately threw my dad out. It was going on for over a year.

I'm distraught, I am 41 weeks pregnant and I just feel constantly sick. My heart is breaking and I can't bare to imagine how my mum feels. I feel empty 😭😭😭