What does it mean when a guy puts your hand on his crotch while making out?

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I've been dating a guy for a bit but we are both in agreement that we are not ready to have sex yet (various personal factors involved there and he has been the main driver of it). We were in a very heated make-out session today and he placed my hand on his crotch. I've never had this happen to me before with any of the guys I've made out with. I liked it and it really turned me on to know he was so turned on (I made that clear to him), but I wasn't really sure what to do in response. I did rub a little but then wasn't sure what else to do, if anything. I know I played it off fine so I'm not worried about it, but in hindsight kind of wondering what to do for next time this might happen. Any thoughts?

Accepted Answer

Probably his way of showing you he’s ready?  And giving you the option of going further if you want to.

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That means he wanted a bit of attention down there. You did good by rubbing it ! Maybe it means that he’s ready for the next step too. Just make sure you are before getting into something ! And no , he’s not gonna stop in the middle of the make out session to say “ I’M READY NOW” . He’s probably using non verbal language , because he is IN THE MOMENT . But yea , just make sure you’re both ready .

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My husband did that while we were dating. He just wanted to let me know that if I wanted to he would love a bit of attention down there. I just kinda rubbed the front of his pants and felt awkward. However he told me much much later that he liked it a bit too much and it was amazing. Definitely only do what you want to!!! He will love whatever.

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That even though y’all aren’t ready for sex maybe he’s ready for a hand job..

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When my boyfriend does that it means to rub over his pants and work my way into a handjob, if I want to.

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a nonverbal way of saying he wants a hand/blowjob and advancing from a makeout session to more than that (only if u want to of course)

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ask him if he’s ready to go a little further. or after rubbing on his crotch start undoing his pants. see what happens.

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I would ask him. Part of being ready to do a sexual act is being ready to talk about it together. It seems like he might want a hand job or some stimulation. But you have to be ready for that and you might want to check that this is what he meant. I’d ask and say something like “last time we were making out, your put my hand on your crotch. I’m not sure I know what you wanted me to do exactly.” And I’d ask when you aren’t making out. Just ask in normal conversation.

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My husband does that to show me how much he’s turned on by me and wants me to rub it

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It usually happens when he’s really turned on almost like an instinct. Just rubbing it is just fine since you’re not trying to go any further than that anything more than that is just going to get things more heated lol. Don’t kiss him on the neck either😆

What does it mean when a guy puts your hand on his crotch while making out?

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