Love 2 men at the same time?

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6 months ago I broke up with my ex of 3 years. He was my first love. The problem was we went through so much and there were problems with respect. He was trying to improve and did until on valentines he disrespected me like he used to in the past. I didn’t want to break up..I love him so much, but I couldn’t accept that. We kept in contact after. Soon after I started dating my current boyfriend. He’s respectful, kind, and understanding like a man should be. He’s been very understanding about staying in contact with ex and the time it takes to get over someone after being in a relationship for so long. I did break up with him briefly because I was going through some hardships and needed space. I’m back with my current boyfriend now..but he wants me to cut contact with my ex which is understandable. The thing is I’m still deeply in love and attached to my ex...he just changed too late. I have deep feelings for my boyfriend too and feel bad that I haven’t given him a fair chance being that  I’m still invested emotionally in my ex. The thing is my ex trying to prove to me he’s changed and wants another chance and is willing to wait for me to sort out my feelings. I know this sounds wish washy. I just don’t know what to do..I love two men. I love my ex more but I gave him so many chances. I also am starting to think after 6 months still feeling this deeply that I’ll never get over him. Should I give my boyfriend a fair chance? Should I go back to my ex? I don’t know what to do..

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I don’t think you really love either of them imo. I think you just like the idea of love and relationships. Don’t go back to your first boyfriend because he was disrespectful and that doesn’t just change. But don’t stay with your current boyfriend because you’re clearly not happy

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I think u need to move on people only change for a curtain amount of time until they fuck up again if y’all meant to be it will happen but for now I think u should give ur new love a chance

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I think whatever official relationship you've agreed to gets the attention and the chance. Leaving the possibility of someone else stealing you from a current relationship is unfair, it's not what you agreed to with the current bf, I'd say let the relationship play out.
It's ok to love multiple people, it happens to me a lot, actually- that's why I came up with the above rule.
No one should be allowed to interfere with an official monogamous relationship like that. 
I think agreeing to be official means you agree to ignore other opportunities until out of a relationship for other reasons. 
I'm not saying ignore your feelings, acknowledge and process them, but I think it's a very bad idea to leave someone you love for someone who you've already given so many chances.
I actually did that a couple years ago- but NOT in an official relationship, I left one person I had strong feelings for, for an old flame who had messed up a lot in the past & seemed like they changed. 
And I lost someone I still have feelings for & the fellow I chose to be official with just messed up again worse than ever, so I broke his heart too. All hearts broken- all three. I don't recommend.

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You needed to give yourself time to truly heal, and honestly learn to love yourself. You’re ex disrespected you but yet you still
Love him to the point to keep communicating & even contemplate giving him another chance despite being with someone new. I will also point out that you don’t truly respect or care about your current boyfriend because you being with him despite struggling with feelings for someone else to the point that you haven’t even given him a fair chance is selfish of you. He deserves the truth about where you are & you owe him that because he’s been nothing but good to you.

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Years back I was kind of in your position, but I came to the conclusion that 1) No matter what, he’ll always be someone special to you, he was your first true love & that first will never be replaced & you’ll always carry in your heart. 2) he could of changed at any point & he chose to do it at the moment when you found someone else. 
Regardless make sure you are honest with the them & yourself with the choice you make. Only you are in control of your own happiness.

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Stay with the new guy. Block your ex on everything.you cannot have a relationship new one with your ex humping your leg  need to move on from your ex. He never going to change.

Love 2 men at the same time?

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