So ridiculous and delusional!

I'm dating a guy who is in the midst of a divorce. The reason it is taking so long is because his ex is fighting him unjustly regarding the kids. She's only recently realized that she might have to pay child support (he has had their two boys in his full undivided care since July of 2019). Besides her stopping in sparatically for visits, she never takes them, watches them, supports them or anything. She has just been spiteful and pretends on social media that she loves and cares for her kids and husband and that her family and marriage is perfect even though she sees them for an hour once a month if it's convenient for her and hasn't lived with her "husband" since last spring/summer. My boyfriend, his mom, and I are the ones who are raising them and supporting them. Granted I hardly do anything compard to their dad. But honestly I do a whole lot more than their mom because they are good kids and I do love them! I pick them up from school every single day nearly. Shop with them, go to all their soccer games, do their laundry. I love them. I feel like their unofficial step mama. His mom watches them in the mornings and takes them to school. We all pitch in and make it work.

Whereas the ex would just threaten my boyfriend and tell him that if he divorces her, she'll make so much money off of him for child support and how she will never have to work again.

Anyways. She has changed lawyers. Suffers from mild anxiety. Apparently cannot handle how hyper they are. Can't afford to do anything yet she dresses better then all of us and always has her hair and nails done and is always at bars and patios with friends. She pretends that her life online is perfect and would post things subtly directed to me. Acting like her marriage was good and such.

This weekend my boyfriend and i happened to go away. Its been a long time! Pre covid. As we are eating pizza in a hotel suite his ex sends me a DM on Instagram (she was not blocked, she simply wasn't my friend so any message from her is a request). It was an over the top filtered snap chat filtered selfie with a caption saying so excited hubby is taking me away for our anniversary weekend. I showed him and he rolled his eyes. Clearly. Right beside me 4 hours away from home. He's with me and she's pretending like she's with him to make me jealous. Delusional much?!