What do I do please help!

My partner is my best friend we have been together 11 months and we constantly talk about our future and what we want, we both agreed we want kids and marriage and the usual future but last month my family accused my partner of being abusive to my 3 year old daughter because she cried and didn’t want to come home when they had a bouncy castle at there house (what 3 year old would want to leave a bouncy castle and go home) so now him and my family do not have any contact they do not speak and he will not been seen dropping me off to them but he told me today if we were to have kids he wouldn’t want our child having any contact with my family at all which I can’t agree to, they have their faults but with my supervision I don’t see why contact should be completely cut so we only have the choice of a break up or cutting my family off and neither is a choice I want to make, he makes me beyond happy and he is great with my daughter but I can’t lose the only family I have!

Update!!

So last night me and my partner spoke and he told me he truly couldn’t get married knowing it’s into my family and he would never trust a child of his with them as they are alcoholics and never listen to my rules regarding my daughter so we decided it’s best for both parties to split so we can both try and get what we need without pushing the other into something they don’t want so seems like a lot of crying and curled up in bed for me roday