(Info; we are on the younger side, early 20’s.)

my boyfriend recently reunited with his old friend, who he has known since they were children. He’s a few years older then me & my boyfriend, & I want to give a little insight/background on him, for story details.

He didn’t finish HS, & doesn’t work, meaning no car, not his own place etc etc (not judging, I don’t have my own car either.)

The point is ^ my boyfriend has been paying for our meals & clearly gas for these “joy rides” in the car, and obviously gas to get here to there & back... if it doesn’t bother my boyfriend, that’s fine, but it’s bothering me only because I’m 36 weeks & clearly.. we shouldn’t be blowing money especially extra money that doesn’t need to be spent like food for another person, and gas to drive 35 min over there & back home afterwards... this kid was never my favorite (which I know he doesn’t have to be, it isn’t my best friend.) he’s smoked, never worked, didn’t care for school, etc... which is all the TOTAL opposite of my bf, who doesn’t do anything like that, works full time etc...

MAIN POINT OF RANT .

My main point now has been that since they’ve reunited, it seems my bf only wants to be going to his house, being around him, etc... which is fine i guess.. but also at the same time it isn’t because I can have this baby any minute & I know 100% he has gotten used to this being out & around him feeling & he will miss it within the first week of baby being around & I will have to deal with him feeling like he’s sad or missing out because he isn’t around his friend.. I mentioned this to him how It upsets me that I know I’ll be dealing with him feeling that way in a couple of weeks once the baby is here & he didn’t deny it.. I know that a baby doesn’t mean your life & social life is over, but it’s feeling now personal to me like I’m boring or something to be around PLUS he’ll be sad even when baby is here because he’ll be secretly wishing he was able to be at the friends house. 😐🙄

Also the money part is bothering me which I haven’t mentioned Bc I know it’s HIS money, but still, we don’t even have our own place & he’s blowing extra money towards the last weeks of this pregnancy.. I’ve also been there every time they hang out (which I’m friendly to him, polite, etc.. my bf doesn’t mind me there with them.)

.. Bc I don’t trust this kid & he’s introduced my bf to girls in the past where things have gone wrong.. idk what to do.. I feel bothered, sad, angry etc... rant over btw if you read the whole thing thank you 🥳🤣