I need all the weaning tips please. I need to stop breastfeeding immediately. I absolutely HATE IT and I have for a long time. My 1 year old still wants to nurse like 10 times a day and a MINIMUM of 5 times a night and I'm done. I'm pregnant again and it hurts like hell when she nurses now but I've also hated breastfeeding for a long time and I need it to be over for my own mental health. I don't even enjoy spending time with my 1 year old anymore because all she wants to do when she's with me is nurse and I am so touched out and just over it. I don't know why she still wants to nurse so much as she does great eating solids. I've tried distracting her with food or toys to get her mind off nursing and nothing ever works.