Baby Shower (international)

Beebee

I've never been to one and I'm not going to this one. My Fiance's cousin whom I've never met because she lives in my home country- is having an Oct. baby and doing a shower. Anywho, we'd love to send a gift I was thinking a jumper and a musical plush toy. Is $50 too much? What about a card do we write it to the mother-to- be or the-parents-to-be?