I’m 24 and my bf is 22. When I ment him he was selling drugs I didn’t know that he told me he worked at Amazon, he was with me every single day. I told him I would help him get to job interviews and get his social security card.

One day he came to me and asked if I can take his mom to the doctor I said I would but his mom got in my car With her boyfriend, I’m like wtf. I told him about cause that’s his mom he says he didn’t know either.

We go to the mall his sister says can you bring me back some shoes I’ll pay you that I don’t mind doing cause Im there and she always pays me back.

I come to pick him up, his cousin is with him both of them getting in my car and he didn’t even tell me he was coming. I get pissed off and I said this is my car, I pay the insurance and the car note. So if I wanted to I’ll put everybody out. Keep in mind I just had the car detailed. He tells me I’m rude for that I feel as though you can’t tell someone what to do with their car.

It seems like nobody in his family has a car the mother is older than me with no car no apartment and depends on welfare as income. The sister lives with her bf no car no job, depends on welfare. His cousins no car but has kids and a job.

I’m not use to this at all my family has everything good jobs cars and houses that they own.

Me on the other hand I have a good paying job I drive a 2019 Sentra and I have my own house that I own my kids are well taken care of I have two girls. My credit is good for my age, I am also working on owning my own business to pass down to my girls. I also invest my money in stocks and bonds.

Today he asked if I can take him to his daughter I said no, he gets mad and says I haven’t seen her in 2 years this means a lot to me. Then asks if I can call him a Lyft I say no. I told him why can’t you ask you cousins to take you they always call him for help. Even when he did have money they always asked him for stuff but they can’t give him 5 or 10 bucks to eat. He basically went through 5000 dollars in 1 week trying to help his family. Now that he is done they don’t want to help him. But he still continues to help them.

But today I got aggravated and told him not to ask me for nothing else I’m not trying to be mean or petty but I feel like I told the truth. Maybe I was rude but but that’s how I feel. Sometimes people need thought love, I want to see him do good, I see the potential in him. I know everybody was not delt the same cards as me but your life doesn’t have to stay the same you can always correct only you have that power I told him this but he didn’t listen.