Are you having help?

I’m just curious how many of you will have help come after baby? Like someone close to you? I am also getting my tubes tied and not sure how that’s going to go. My friend just had hers done and said she was pretty sore for a few days after. So I will be healing from that and labor And adjusting to having 2 kids... my mom has offered to come help mostly with cooking and cleaning and helping with the housework because she knows I’m going to have a hard time resting knowing that there’s laundry, dishes cooking and cleaning that needs to be done. (I’m slightly ocd when it comes to a clean house) part of me wants her to come keep my house in order lol but part of me wants to be left alone. My husband will go straight back to work when we get home from the hospital because we just really can’t afford him being off so I think it may be nice to have a little help... with my first we lived closer to her and she came every other day but didn’t stay with us. This time she’d have to stay with us since we live further away.