Is my husband a rat

Lauren

36 weeks pregnant ladies and ive just found a message on my husbands ipad to another woman 👩...Telling her she's a great catch and that anyone would be lucky to have her bla bla bla....ive pulled him over it he said oh we are just friends and shes having a hard time 🤣....ive messaged the woman and said do you think that message was snakey and she replied her fiance read it first and it is very random. Let me add this is not the first random message hes sent to other women...i am sure I have a big dick hanging off my stupid head. Anyway whats 😳 the input from you lot because I feel utterly heartbroken vulnerable stupid embarrassed and betrayed. 💔