So far I've only bought 8 onsies for our daughter. I've not even got hardly anything done for her baby shower. I feel like I'm extremely behind. But here is the problem my boyfriend doesn't think we should start buying stuff yet he truly thinks that, when we have the baby shower we will get all we need which is not true by no means we only have a few family members that live here or even talk too. Its just unrealistic to think everyone else will buy everything! Is it just me or should we start buying more stuff unlike he thinks.