I’ve been going thru some really hard times with my baby father ever since I got pregnant. We haven’t even been talking for the majority of my first trimester. We finally worked things out and I was finally ready to get back together. I’ve literally been crying my eyes out having panic attacks daily every single day, and I was finally excited to be happy again. So why did my OBGYN call me today and tell me I have chlamydia... I’m so lost what to do. I think that honestly I’m the source of the infection because I asked the doctor when’s the last time I got tested & she told me it was January of this year. Since January I did sleep with someone raw who - in retrospect - I should not have because they probably gave me the infection. My baby’s father always uses condoms (except with me duh 🤦🏻‍♀️). I have nooooo freaking idea how I’m going to tell my baby father that he needs to get treated for chlamydia before we can have sex again. It’s going to ruin EVERYTHING that we just worked so hard on fixing. Please no judgement.. I’m trying to do the right thing for him & for our baby’s health.. I sent him a message from the anonymous STD notification website but I honestly don’t think that he’s going to take it seriously and get treated unless I straight-up force him to. He’s terrified of needles and has told me before that he flat-out refuses to get STD tested, he also doesn’t have insurance so he doesn’t have a doctor he can go to. I don’t know what to do 😭 I just wanted to be happy for once after months and months of depression and now everything’s being ruined by a mistake I made almost a year ago when me & my baby father were broken up. Any suggestions on how to tell him 😕