Living with family struggles...

So to start the story off my fiancée and I have an in law suite in our basement. Which his brother lives in, for a few reasons I’d rather not go into detail he basically has to live down there. He would not do well on his own, for again personal reasons I donteven know the full story too.

Usually we get along fine. I ignore him screaming at his stupid computer and 90% of the time he’s extremely kind.

But ever since we brought the baby home he’s friggin smothering. He never stops coming upstairs (without warning or knocking to let me know) he’s randomly just started doing the dishes or cleaning somethings. He’s asked to watch the baby while i run to the store but due to his severe anger (has punched holes in drywall over a chess game..) I absolutely will never leave my infant in his care.

My fiancée has tried to talk to him but it’s not getting any better and now my fiancée is sheep hunting till Friday so it’s just me his brother and the baby in the house.

He got so under my nerves one day I snapped and kind of rudely asked to be left alone. I don’t find his help “helpful and he doesn’t understand that I’m not overwhelmed. I don’t need help and If I did I would gladly ask for it.

He’s the type to take everything way to personally and start family drama. Then 10:30 last night he texts “hey if you have time tomorrow, I’d like to talk. Not a big deal :)”

And for some reason it’s got me on mega edge cause I’ve done everything to be kind up to this point and I just want my fiancée home I’m sick of being smothered in my own home. I’m legit debating hiding at my

Mother house till Friday even though she isn’t home either just to be alone. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Sorry for the rant but I needed to tell someone.