How can i get myself to orgasm?

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I’m almost 18 & i’ve been masturbating since i was in 6th grade. I have never been able to make myself orgasm & it’s really frustrating. My boyfriend has even tried fingering me to see if he could & i still couldn’t. I’ve wanted to purchase a vibrator or something just to see if that could possibly work cause i’m to the point where i’m tired of not being able to. It’s literally been my goal to make myself orgasm before i even lose my virginity & it looks like i’m not gonna be doing either anytime soon 🙄

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Clit stimulation is the best way to go, not penetration

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I have never really managed to orgasm vaginally, but I can be reasonably consistent when I stimulate my clitoris.
There are a new generation of toys that use suction and vibration together on the clitoris to stimulate and I’ve found those to be very effective. Like, I have to be careful not to get “death grip”, it’s that effective lol. 
You can get an affordable one of those from many adult stores (including online) - but maybe it’s worth giving a go?
It’s worth noting that if you obsessively chase orgasm it can suck a lot of fun out of the journey. If you can play with yourself (or have your partner play with you) and that feels good to you - don’t discount that positive sensation either. Sometimes, there are days where an orgasm just doesn’t want to happen. But it’s still fun as hell playing around regardless.

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It can be clitoral OR penetration not everyone is the same

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You can only really make yourself orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Fingering won’t really give you one, even during sex the actual orgasm is usually caused by friction to your clit

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I feel you! It’s always been an issue between libido and my shitty ex boyfriend who said something is wrong with me. I finally managed to a few weeks ago. Definitely get a vibrator!!! If nothing else just get one for your clit! Made a HUGE difference

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Are you in the right mindset? Don’t focus on the thought of I want an orgasm. Sometimes you need a celebrity or someone who is beyond the means of sexy to be in the right mood. Not to say your bf isn’t, sometimes you need that extra motivation. Anyways play around the areas on your clit and see what gives you a reaction/jolt ect. Then go in and focus on that spot while stimulating others occasionally. I’ve found that if I’m focused too much on having one it doesn’t happen.

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Try reading a book of Emily Nagosky: Come as you are
It is very helpful and talks a lot about orgasming
There is no easy solution for anyone.

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Clit simulation 👌🏼

How can i get myself to orgasm?

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