I am 21wks pregnant with my second child, a baby girl, & I am due January 10th. I have heard all of the stories about how baby girls make you bigger, or your second pregnancy makes you bigger than your first. Well, my mom doesn’t hesitate to remind me of how big I am 🙄 what bothers me is the fact that she keeps saying “she’s gonna come early...she’s not coming in January, she’s coming sooner than that”...😤 this annoys my soul! I don’t want my little one to come too early & I would much rather her be a January baby. Not only that, I’m also high risk! So hearing “she’s going to come early” really gets to me, & nobody seems to understand that. I was high risk & went full term with my son, so I’m praying that I can do the same with this little person as well. I just needed a moment to vent 😔