Is it worth separating?

Question

I hate were I live!! My husband wants to spend his whole life here is that a reason to divorce? I know it may sound shallow but I just don't wanna live here!

Answer

I hate the house we live in right now but I could never imagine a life without my husband. I love the life we have created together and I vowed to follow him where he goes because he is my spouse. I am not in your shoes at all. I just know that no matter how much I may hate something, I will always love my husband more. No matter how hard it is. I'm thankful I have a roof over my head, food on our table, a place our babies can call a home, and a hard working husband that provides us with what we need and want. It's rough for jobs anymore and sometimes sacrificing what we want means that we have what we need. Sometimes marriage calls for being selfless and not so selfish.

Answer

If this is truly a question you'd consider, you may have fewer issues. I'd live in a cardboard box with my husband if I had to.

That being said. Everyone has their "deal breakers" and only you know what they are. Mine fall more along the lines of cheating and beating, but you have to decide what your "deal breakers" are. If where you live is a "deal breaker" worth risking your marriage over, that's your call. I will wonder though if you should have ever been married if this is a reason you'd consider divorce, but that's my issue, not yours.

Answer

I know how you feel, me and my so live in another country away from all of my family and friends he's settled amazingly good job great friends and he's flourished me on the other hand I haven't made friends developed severe anxiety and panic attacks and now we have baby on way I don't know whether to go home with all my family and friends or stay here have the baby and only see him 3-4 hours a day because of work:-/ it's so shit because he's made it clear that this is his home and if I leave then he'll stay :(

Answer

There's not enough information to form an opinion. But even if there was, mine shouldn't matter to you. Ideally the two of you should look at the situation from the others perspective, an honest look. Then discuss the matter again, pray about it separately and together if you are praying people, then the decision should be more easily made.

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