So I got engaged last year in March and we had planned to have our wedding this October , things happened within my family that we weren’t expecting and then our relationship took a hit and we cancelled. Luckily our venue was willing to work with us to change the date once we realized we want to be together and get married , we’ve given almost 4,000 for the venue. In March we were supposed to go and change the dates but that’s when we got shut down because of COVID. Then we find out in June that the person who was renting out the ballroom lost it since she couldn’t pay the rent. Now even though she agreed to allow us to change the date she turned it around stating we cancelled and she isn’t going to refund any of our money. It’s our fault for even canceling in the first place but WTF!! I’m lost and we’ve been attempting to work this out, we’re planning on a wedding for November but our finances have been affected. We’re lost and I need ideas 😣💔