Tattoo for bonuschildren

This year I've given birth to our son.

I want to have a tattoo for the birth of our son.

I also want to include my bonus children into the tattoo because I love them and don't want to leave them out, I also don't want them to feel left out.

Also, they will always be my son's brothers so including them into a tattoo for my baby makes sense to me.

I can't ask for permission from their mom, she hates me for existing 🙄...

But honestly I don't feel like I need her permission. It's between me and the children. It's my body too.

My love for them isn't conditional. If things wouldn't work out somehow or they wouldn't want contact with me in the future, that won't affect my love for them and I won't regret having them in the tattoo.

Also maybe important to know is that I don't do names in tattoos, I believe in meanings.. More specifically what they mean to me.