Okay so as girls usually we have the say in what we want out of a man, sex-wise. Well, today I tried a technique. While we were cuddling and having a hard core make out session the best way to make sure I didn't get "open" to the idea, because it's a first date I just kept repeating ducks and potatoes. I don't know why it worked so well but it did. So, just a heads up if you want some awesome make out sessions but don't actually want the sex the best way to hold out is to think of the most earthy thing ever.