Is it weird for a 27 year old to be with a 19 year old?

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My cousin is 19 & she’s talking to a man who is 27 & they’ve had sex. I’m concerned about it. The man should be able to get with someone closer to his age. Plus my cousin is very “ditzy”￼ & a bit immature but she’s absolutely beautiful. I don’t want her to get hurt!!! But I don’t want to hurt our relationship by me telling her she needs to find someone else. 
The other guy she’s talking to is 26 about to be 27... I don’t know why they want someone so young?! Is it weird or is this normal and okay?

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It’s fine and none of your business honestly. I was 19 when I married my 24 year old husband. That’s not much of a difference from 27. Leave her be.

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I would be very very wary of it. An older person dating a young one is always a red flag until it isn’t. 
People will tell you from their own experience that it’s normal and this and that but I wouldn’t drop my concerns by one comment or two. Just keep an eye out if you truly care and be there for her. 
I’m a young person and I could never. In my opinion it’s predatory.

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It’s not weird. It’s pretty common than most people think. Example... my fiancé just turned 42 and I’m 22. We are having a baby this month. And we truly love each other. Not many people agreed with our relationship. But that didn’t stop us from being together even if people were in my ear telling me he’s so old for me. I don’t really care because he’s a great man. And its not any of their business... 
you should just wish her the best  in her relationship. If she gets hurt by this guy I mean... it’s a lesson learned. Just hope for the best. Support her. Even if you don’t agree.

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I dunno, my first real relationship was this exact age gap. We were together for a couple+ years, broke up (because of me) and when we reconnected later (me 24 him 32) we were still very much in love. Things didn't work out because I was pretty bad into a heroin addiction, needless to say I've never heard from him again.
Anyway, I've been there done that and I do not think it is weird but that is just for me. I think it really depends on the maturity levels of the people involved. 19 is an adult either way...so you can be involved and get the scoop and have her back but ultimately she can do whatever she wants.

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As usual, everyone on here is going to tell you it’s none of your business, because it isn’t. 
Why do you care? How does it affect you?

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I was 19 and my husband was 26 when we started dating. Been married for 2 years and expecting a baby girl in a couple weeks.

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Age is just a number when two people are 18+. It’s her life and it really is none of your business who she dates and who she has sex with.