Gender scan.

Lynette
This is my first pregnancy,  I know I'm a little way away from the gender scan, as only 11weeks but I was wondering who will be having the gender scan?? 
I want to as most of my close family really wants a girl and my dad is so determined I'm having a girl. 
But partner wants to wait till the end for the surprise element of everything, but I kinda want to know so I can let me dad know. 
It's hard to please them both. :/ bother really important men in my life! Don't want to upset either one.