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Im pregnant and all alone. The Dad doesnāt want anything to do until I get a dna test to prove its his. My mother is mad because I didnāt help her with a job that she asked me to help with, she wonāt answer my messages or return my calls. I was living with my uncle and his gf and for no reason they started being mean to me and are basically driving me out of living with them. When I moved with my uncle he ended up going to jail and during that time I took care of all the bills . I was living paycheck to paycheck and going to college. Because of life, I was without a car and now got one that Iām making monthly payments on, on top of that expensive insurance because Iām 19. With COVID I changed jobs (was a server before) and now a cashier and Iām barely making enough to cover my expenses. I have gone through a lot this year, I know we all have . But I went to Arkansas for a weekend just to distract myself . I budgeted strictly . I asked my uncles gf if they could take care of the bills while Iām gone because I wanna not stress about money when I go. They didnāt. I made the mistake to pay them. Which caused me to go broke as she never payed me in full what she owed me for two months because according to her she payed me already. I asked her after two months had passed if she could pay me before such date because my car payment was gonna go through and she didnāt and I ended up paying an overdraft fee twice. About a week ago I had a place to go but things donāt always go as planned but I had already told my uncle I was gonna move out and today he texts me while heās in the living room if Iām going to pay him the rent or not and that he payed last months bills all by himself . I donāt have the money to pay them back rn . Iām struggling . I told him I only have $300 (my only savings) and that I could get the Rest on Friday when Iām payed . And that the bills Iāll pay when I can but that I canāt right now . All he says is ok. And if Iām going to stay or not and I explain that for sure Iāll be out November . But I wanted to leave before but just canāt rn . He says āokā . I leave to fill out paperwork at the doctor and he texts me telling him I owe him $212 . Meaning that Iām paying half of the bills when itās 3 people and Iām always working and hardly home . I get mad and tell him off and tell him how ever since he left I took care of everything that house, and always payed more than everyone else because of his internet bill that no one payed just me. And that three times I was not payed in full what was owed to me and I never said anything and how when he came back I never charged a dime because he was in a big debt but that we all have shit we have to pay for . I told them to go fuck themselves and Iām leaving by the end of the week. Only I donāt have anywhere to go. Iāve asked many people and no one can help me.
Whenever I took care of the bills I always tried to pay them on time , his gf always payed me late . And I just wish they would be as understanding as I was with them. š they know Iām pregnant. They just donāt care .
I donāt care if I have to live in my car for a few weeks. But I have a dog and I canāt make her live in my car . I donāt know what to do. Sheās all I have . I canāt give her away either .
Im so hurt because I feel like everyone has turned their backs on me after I did so much for them šš
Like itās FAMILY. Why do they do this to me at these such hard times šš
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