This Situation Is So Stupid

I have kept you guys updated about this stupid situation. Basically me and my husband got into an argument about who is gonna get the bedroom with the bathroom. His 16 year daughter old or my 15 year old son. My son had a medical condition. An overactive bladder . It causes him to need to pee a lot and he has accidents quite commonly. Well my husband through a whole fit. Punched a whole in the wall. Threatened son! I kicked him out! His daughter came over to get stuff she left behind. She asked where her dad was and I told her he through a fit over which one of you gets the bedroom with a bathroom. Do you know what she said to me? She goes "Why we're you fighting over that. I already told himJoey could have that room". I go "Excuse me what?!" She says "I'm only here every other weekend. Plus Joey needs it more. I was just happy to get my own room". I'm sitting here shit face. What tf was the point of his arguing with me. Putting a hole in the wall an threatening my son. I don't understand what his logic was.

Personally I think I could have looked over the holes in the wall, but him threatening to beat the shit out of my son. I'm probably about to be on my second divorce because there is no apology that can make up for that