Something Is Wrong And My Husband Won't Tell Me

Whenever my husband gets upset he starts stress cleaning. You may think this is a good thing but NO! I literally just had a baby and he's be unbearable. I was looking for our son something to wear and he freaks out on me saying " Seriously! I put all the onsies in aphabetical order!" I then ask " How... Did you do that?" He yells again saying he doesn't have to tell me his process and slams the door. He got mad that I didn't use a coaster. He color coded our snack pantry and got Soo pissed at me for messing it up. I ask him what's wrong. He goes "Why do you think something is wrong". As he's scrubbing the door now with a tooth brush .... Should I just let this ride out until he's ready to tell me what's wrong. Because talking to him is getting me no were.