Ok I’ve been thinking about this for maybe the past 8 months but decided that I’m just shallow and I didn’t want to hurt him.

But my bf has gained a lot of weight since we got together 1,5 year ago. Maybe like 44 pounds. He was very slim when we met, and it’s not that I have a big problem with his appearance now because I still think he is drop dead handsome, BUT when it comes to sex it’s another story!

I am personally a very insecure person, especially over my body and weight and because of that I feel it’s hard to confront him, but yeah the last couple of months I have had no sex drive, I take no initiative.

The only thing I can do almost during sex is riding him, but his hips are so vide now that I cannot do it properly... it’s so embarrassing and he seems to think its just me getting lazy’ 😪 and that embarrassed me even more.

Also it can be uncomfortable when he’s on top of me and his belly is slapping mine.

Is there any nice way of telling him this without hurting him? 😪

Right now I’m pregnant and I was thinking maybe it was easier to ask him to get in shape with me, as a couple, after the baby is born? 😅