Am I annoying ?

Question

Is it annoying to want to talk to your partner about your feelings . I posted on here a while ago and got a lot of comments telling me I was annoying for wanting to talk to him about this. Now this is something that’s bothering me as I thought conversations like this were suppose to normal in relationships. I’ve found myself being closed off from him and not wanting to explain the problems I’ve been facing in my uni and work life.

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Wanting to talk about your feelings no..however if it is being brought up daily or at bad times than yes. Both partners need to be respectful of the others feelings but that being said you need to respect that at times your partner might need to be able to decline that conversation too. Basically don't harp on it constantly and make sure it is a good time and you are respectful of them too.

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Everything you wrote sounds good intentioned but it's hard for me to agree to be on your side without hearing the details.

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Talking about your feelings is fine. Wanting to have a State of the Union talk frequently is emotionally exhausting and shouldn't be necessary. I have literally broken up with a boyfriend over doing that. Best break up ever! Felt like I was having a noose removed from my neck!

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It really depends on the context. If it’s one conversation once in awhile then fine. But if it’s every day where you’re whining about something I can see how that could be considered annoying.

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I talk to my partner about everything 🤷🏼‍♀️ not annoying imo. You’re a team; for a team to be successful they have to be in sync

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You want. Ok
You have the right to want.
But he also have the right to want what he want, and it can be opposite than you.
It might be considered as insensitive, selfish, rude what ever but he is also a human being that has the right to do what he wants.
Understand that, whatever you think you deserve... someone else's too.
Now maybe you both chose the wrong person to be with.
Yes communication in relationship, yes support in relationship but still you both need to want that.

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In general no but depends on situation

Am I annoying ?

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