Old Lovers?!?!

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What do you do when an old friend / lover wants to rekindle the spark? I only pulled away after I felt myself falling in love with him. But my biggest fear is that happening again this time because I'm in a different place in my life.

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Ignore it. There's a reason they're an ex.

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EXtingish it. They're an ex for a reason!

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It sounds like you want permission to go for it. I think you should do what makes you happy!

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I did it with a couple of exs. 😁 I used to joke about the guys that maybe they're like wine and get better with age. 😋 silly way of rationalizing I guess. But, what I found was that even with the difference of 3-5 years, the same traits/habits that bugged me before, still bugged me now. (Like lack of maturity, too flirtatious, and even too clingy) In my experience, even time doesn't change the little things for some. But I would say go for it cause if you don't, you'll always wonder "what if"

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Can't be scared to get hurt! If Hou do then you will come out stronger from it. Do what you feel you should do

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Depend how long it's been. If it's been a month or so, give it a try if you want. Any longer than that, let it go

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If you don't want to be in love avoid relationships, flames or whatever you want to call it altogether. Tell him sorry, but at this point in life you just want to appreciate his friendship.

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It depends on what we broke up for..... My exes didn't like to go to the doctor so I was done because I don't have a spleen thank God I don't have any diseases. Only obesity...... And I even tried to stick around and refrain from sex it didn't work because they got caught up talking about, well you wouldn't gimme non" that was a total turn off.....

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