Losing friends

Welp... had our first friend decline a visit because “we’re in different places in our lives.”

My husband turned 30 and we had been planning a weekend away at the lake with our close circle of friends.

My maid of honour recently split with her boyfriend and has been going out partying etc. So I was already going to address that if she was expecting to come for the weekend. No word from her all week and the day before we leave she sends me and our other close friend a message saying “not that I don’t like your other friends or anything but we’re at different stages in our lives and I kinda wanna stay home and get attention from my softball friends”...

Whatever, fine, I didn’t want her to come anyways with her going out partying and all... Also add when we showed up to her birthday she practically ignored me and our other best friend and made a comment “who brings a baby to a party”? ... I didn’t think it was going to be a rager and just a small social distanced gathering. And to top it off she’s been posting photos all weekend with her hanging out with another friend of hers and her 1 year old.

So anyways... I know I shouldn’t be offended but I am. Feel like everyone is reacting different around us and not inviting me on hikes or anything or wanting to have the same relationship we use to just because I have a baby.

I get it, things will be different but I’m the same person and now I stead of going on hikes with friends I’m doing this on my own. Sucks.