My boyfriend says I’m controlling

olivia

My boyfriend does drugs and it scares me because my dad was an abusive drug addict. I ask him not to go out and do drugs because it’s scary and traumatic for me and he tells me that asking him not to do drugs makes me controlling and I’m being unfair to him. It’s just because I’m traumatized. I’m not trying to control him, I just don’t want him to end up like my dad. Am I being controlling?