This always annoys me

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Okay so we live within walking distance to my husband's dad and our front door has a small window that obviously is way too small for a curtain but anyways, one day my husband was asleep in the living room (where our front door is) and I was sitting in the floor in front of the couch watching TV (I can't sit on the couch because it sinks too far in for my pregnant self 🥴) and I had my shirt up to under my bra line and my belly was exposed and I was rubbing it like I always do. Well his dad came on the porch and knocked for my husband and I woke him up and blah blah blah and once his dad left he said that his dad wanted to know why I had my shirt up rubbing my belly... His dad is getting on my nerves with his crap. He tries to ask questions that isn't his business period.

He's asked me why I rub my belly and made idiotic comments like "I'm surprised you don't make the baby sick by doing that" like I'm excuse you mind your business????

Also he's gotten to the point where he will mention mine and my husbands sex life. He will make comments like "the best time for you guys to have sex is right now because you can't get pregnant and if you aren't comfortable find a different position" and "according to your marriage vows you can turn him down for sex and he can't turn you down unless he's sick ahd pregnancy isn't a sickness"

His dad is starting to piss me off with all the comments hes made this entire time. First he tried to tell me when i should feel my baby move (I was around 18 weeks I think) and he put his hand on my belly and said "I feel it moving". No.. he didn't. If my son were moving inside my uterus is know first.

He's also made comments about what to expect during my pregnancy because his ex wife had his 2 son's... Then he tried to tell me that I shouldn't get an epidural because "the baby would be hooked on drugs" and more recently he told me that if I had to have a c-section it would be because I'm not active enough for my pelvis to spread apart. He also has told me that I shouldn't be induced if given the choice and that when I go into labor I need to try to have the baby natural first and turn down a c-section.

This man thinks he's a freaking doctor and I swear he's done nothing but piss me off this entire pregnancy 😠

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