First time tips?

Question

I’m 19 and have never had sex, because I chose to wait to find the right person, and now I have! I am so happy I have, but I am nervous. Mostly abt the pain, but some other things as well. Tips would be greatly appreciated. I’m not sure how long it’ll be until it happens, but I would like to be as prepared as possible, so the more advice the better. TIA! ❤️

Answer

I suggest a warm soak in a bath beforehand, lots of talking and foreplay, and lube.

Answer

Is your SO experienced? 
I would suggest having a conversation in advance about it. Let them know what you think you need from them to make you feel comfortable and relaxed, because that is going to be key. Make sure you both are on the same page about starting off slow and them checking in with you about how you are doing. I would suggest a lot of foreplay so your body is ready, and using some lube. 
My first time only hurt for a few minutes, and then it was okay. It didn’t feel good until a few times after though.

First time tips?

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