so when my brothers were my age they experienced life a lot more than i do rn. i’m almost 21. my mom gets mad when i come home late although she wouldn’t make a completely big deal about it but she tends to guilt trip me on it. my brothers at 21 would not respond to her calls and would have her worry that maybe something happened to them but they still got to do what they want. when she calls me i pick up or i text her saying im okay but she still makes it about “ur a girl there’s certain things you can’t be doing”. a lot of people have told me at this point there’s not much i can do considering the fact that i help pay the bills in the house, i help around the house a lot, i’m respectful to her and all i ask for is the same treatment my brothers got at my age but she and my dad refuses to give that to me (mind u my dad doesnt live with us but he’s the reason she treats me this way and she sees nothing wrong in that) is it wrong for me to feel like i just need to do what i feel is right for me? and no i don’t plan on moving out anytime soon bc rent in ny costs an arm and leg and im also in college and with the covid situation its hard for me to find another job. and on top of that i’m from a hispanic/pakistani so moving out before marriage is rly looked down upon. but i still don’t want to constantly have to put my life on hold bc my parents believe they should be harder on me bc i’m a girl. is that really wrong ?????