Before I met my husband I had been in relationships with both men and women. Then I met my husband and my heart just exploded for him and I didn't even want to think about anyone else. He would always joke around with me and my previous relationships with females and I told him that it was all in the past.

Well a few years into our relationship I started having a yearning for women again. I've never acted on it, and I've told my husband and we've talked about it. I think it can be natural for a person's bisexuality to ebb and flow. For me it was always there, I just didn't realize it because I had just met the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

I am very fortunate to have a husband that I can be completely open with about my feelings. He doesn't make me ashamed of also being attracted to women (and clearly he's known the whole time that those feelings never left me, even when I thought they did). He knows he's the only man for me but there is this tiny part of me that he will never sexually fulfill and he respects that and he is open to a conversation about me being with a woman if and when the time comes (which might never happen). He knows that I am still fully committed to him.

Bottom line is if you feel your feelings coming back, I hope you feel like you can talk to your husband about them. It might take some time, but conversation and honesty is the best starting point.

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