Hi all! RANT INCOMING!!!! So as you may know by following me; I am currently pregnant! 12w 3d! My husband and I are over the moon! Also if you follow me; you may also know that my husband and I went through an ectopic pregnancy almost 3 years ago now. It still hurts my heart to this day. Anyway, when I found out I was pregnant with my little this time I called up my brother and his girlfriend to spread the good news! My brothers girlfriend was happy! Or so I thought.. 😖 at this time I was about 6 weeks. So as you can imagine I’m scared out of my mind that something bad will happen because of last time and I was just really anxious. Fast forward to a few weeks later; at this time I am about 8 weeks, and I overheard my brothers girlfriend telling my brother over the phone: “well has she had a miscarriage yet? I wish she would just have one” MIND YOU, she knew about my ectopic and how traumatic and painful it was and she knew how bad it had hurt me. So when I heard this, my stomach sunk and I felt a lump in my throat. I didn’t know what else to do but cry. This girl is not only my brothers girlfriend but she was the maid of honor at my wedding, and I considered her one of my closest friends. I trusted her. I loved her. I felt betrayed and hurt by what I had just heard. I have not talked to her, and I’m really having a battle with myself over it because it’s so hurtful to me. I want to confront her about it, but I know if I do I will not be pleasant, and my brother asked me not to. WHAT DO I DO. 😰 it is eating at me to no end.

Sorry for the long post, just really upset and need someone to help me out I guess.