i know there isn’t a right or wrong answer, but if you could go back and choose how old you were or choose what age you want to get married what would it be?

asking because i’m 18, will be 19 in may, and me and my boyfriend(21) have been together 3 years, i don’t want to get married rn, but what are some advantages/ disadvantages of getting married or engaged young? i wouldn’t mind to get engaged rn but i wouldn’t want to get married until covid is over, maybe in a year or two at the earliest. i feel like my boyfriend is hinting at it. TIA❤️