...it's not okay to tell a mother (pregnant or not) that she's being mean to her child.  I teach the teen girls at church and one girl has publicly commented twice on how she feels bad for my son since I've been pregnant.  She says I'm mean to him and not patient.  I know I'm more impatient since I've been pregnant; but my 3yo son has also entered his "I'm going to do the opposite of what you say," phase.  The 3's have been much harder than the 2's.  Even my husband and MIL are finding it hard to deal with this phase.  IDK why I'm letting her get to me, but I love my son very much and think I've done a great job being patient with him considering my pregnancy.  Anyone else dealing with stuff like this?  I need to know I'm not alone here!