Confused

Georgia
I'm they type of person who goes all in emotionally when someone becomes a part of my life (friends, so, family etc) so this guy I've been on and off messing around with is really messing with my head. The first time we hooked up he told me such sweet things about liking me and all that jazz. Part of me thinks it was just to get in my pants and to be honest if that's all it was I'd be okay with that because it was great to just chill with him and stuff. We have a great time every time we hang out. Play video games, eat, smoke and just laugh constantly. I've met his family and they are great. But I find that I'm the one who always messages him, he never texts me first. Idk i think in just confused with what he is feeling. He does have a baby so maybe that has something to do with it. Haha idk opinions? I kinda just needed to tell someone what's happening