So I know this older boy from high school..we were not close in HS. But we both matched on tinder (I have been out of school or a yr.)..we started to talk. And well he went on my 19th birthday get away me a few weeks later and it was amazing wouldnt trade it for the world. and we do everything couples do together(I have gave him bjs and my v-card) we kiss and cuddle. but he refuses to make me his gf officially.and I have noticed he wont hold my hand or hug me in public .. should I keep trying and wait till he is ready or just forget it. He doesnt pressure sex,judge my body type or anything like that so I dont think hes using me. But my close friends that he also hangs with says he has told them he dont want to date. But he had a private convo with my older sister and said he wants to date hes just not ready. What should I do.