Negative - how do you cope?

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I’m 11 dpo and got a negative test this morning. This is only month 2 TTC for us but I’m already thinking about it all the time and obsessing. How do you guys stay positive especially when everyone around you seems to be pregnant?
I fully appreciate there are many women who have bee TTC for years so my 2 months is nothing!

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16 months here. Honestly, it’s hard. It almost tore up our marriage. It felt like such a one-sided battle and I felt so alone. Talking helps, and I know you can’t get but I feel less alone seeing a fertility doctor.

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It’s so hard! And if I’m honest I’ve found it gets harder and harder. We’re only 5 months in and this month I seem to have been obsessively testing like a crazy person, I’ve never done that before. I have to try and keep my self super busy and distracted otherwise it’s literally all I think about. I honestly don’t know how women cope when they have been trying for years 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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I try to stay busy but it’s hard to cope! It’s always on my mind

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Not trying to get your hopes up, but 11 dpo is still early to test sometimes! I got pregnant in April and first tested at 11 dpo and got a BFN. I gave it two more days and tested again at 13 dpo and got my BFP! 
Unfortunately I ended up MC at 8 weeks. 
DH and I are ttc again. I start the TWW now and I will not test until 12-13 dpo at the earliest. Hope this helps and baby dust to you, friend!! ✨

Negative - how do you cope?

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