I'm going 38 soon, and TTC for the 13th month now. I should be ovulating this Saturday but my husband is always tired and stressed out at work (he is 47). I have done checks, scans, and blood test to ensure that I'm fine....but after 13 months, it just isn't happening. My husband doesn't seem to be trying hard enough too. Maybe I should just give up, it is not going to happen. Not when my husband is not on board with me. I feel like I'm the only one trying here. And it happens so easily to everyone else. I have never gotten a BFP before. Not even once.