Is he having an affair?

Something has felt extremely off in my relationship for a while now. Maybe it’s pregnancy hormones sending me crazy though.

For months he has been working CRAZY overtime. Although his pay never seems to match his hours and he’s always broke 👀. I quizzed him about this and he claims to that all of a sudden he doesn’t get paid overtime hours any more but the rest of his colleagues do🤔 which I threw a fit about because why tf are you working this much then? It’s a family business btw.

On his Instagram search history I found accounts that’s he had looked up . When you click on their profiles there’s no pictures, but in the bio it’s basically advertising that they’re girls and you can get what you want. Buying nudes maybe? I confronted him and he says he was only looking at nudes on Instagram.

His mind always seems elsewhere. He always volunteers to leave the house for the dumbest reasons like to go to the shop, things that would normally take 5-10 minutes. But he would be gone an hour sometimes.

And when he IS at home, he’s downstairs normally while I’m upstairs alone. When he finally decides to grant me the grace of his presence, he just sits there on his phone with his headphones on, and if I try to converse with him, it’s usually followed by him pulling the earbuds out in a frustrated way and sighing as if I’m such an inconvenience .

I’m 30 weeks pregnant, and since the beginning it’s felt like he really isn’t bothered about this baby and if anything it’s an inconvenience for him.

Even if he’s not up to anything, the way he’s been acting is making me feel like total shit and I’m over it. I sit alone all day every day raising our daughter and he never makes any time for me.