Was i wrong?

When covid started i lost my job. My husbands hour got cut down in half. The first 2 months of being a SAHM was really nice i did everything i wanted to do with the kids that i wasn't able to do due to my work schedule. To be completely honest it was hard to find a balance, i would come homw from work cook, do light cleaning and a small activity like baking a cake or painting then it was shower and bed. On my days off i would take them to the park or maybe a trampoline park but it never felt like i spent enough time with them. So now being home i was able to caugh up on laundry, cook better meals, do more studies with them and i see a huge improvement in the relationship with my kids, in the sense of it doesn't feel like everything rushed, if that makes sense. My husband has always been every hands on and helpful with the kids but now that I'm a SAHM its like "you don't need help your always home" and i would see lots of post here and never really understood till now that I'm in the position. YES WE DO NEED HELP, being a SAHM is for work then working! Theres more messes to clean, more dirty laundry, more meals to cook being that the kids aren't in school, no dog walker so I'm walking our two dogs its NUTS!!! So yesterday i cleaned the porch, declutter the house, bathed the dogs, did 3 loads of laundry, cooked 3 meals, this man left from work to go play basketball came home at 9pm at night, the kids were in bed i asked him to keep an eye on them while i bathed. I went straight to sleep cause i was exhausted and this man comes to wake me up at 4am to be intimate i tell him no and he goes off its been 2 weeks since you gave me some blah blah blah i just looked at him and went back to bed upset that he doesn't give a flying fuck about helping around the house anymore and after a long day he doesn't offer a massage but whats to argue about me not giving him pussy. Am i wrong for no wanting sex when for the past 2 weeks I've left like a maid and not even a tha k you or the food was amazing or woow the house looks so much better NOTHING