Stop providing unwelcomed condolences

Jessica

Just because some people are spotting or bleeding DOES NOT mean they are having a miscarriage.

Yes, this is a sign of a potential miscarriage, but it’s not always the case. With my first pregnancy I bled for a few days and that pregnancy resulted in a baby girl. I’m pregnant now and again I bled a couple weeks ago, but I’m still pregnant.

I just wish people would stop telling women “I’m so sorry about your loss” and implying that they are certainly having a miscarriage.

Let the doctors make this call. We should be there as a support network without implying they lost their baby. They don’t need any additional stress.