So I’m trying to tell my partner what works for my clit when he goes down on me because I cant get off from his oral (or penetrating) but do with sex toys. I ’ve never really had sex with someone that gave me good head (sad I know) and I’ve also never really known how to communicate how I like it for me.

So if you know what you like on the receiving end, what do you tell them? Or if you have tips on what my partner can do, I’d welcome that too!