My husband and I are currently trying to concieve, I am 32 and he is 42. I love our age difference for so many different reasons and our sex life has always been amazing...until recently! He cannot keep an erection anymore :( it starts out great and he loses it? I have been getting so frustrated and I'm trying to be understanding about it but I do get upset cause in the back of my mind I feel like it's me? Although he has told me how attractive I am to him and that it's not me, I'm having a hard time believing it. Has anyone else had this problem and what was the outcome? We can't concieve if it "doesn't work" and I think that's the most frustrating part about it all?