I am new to all this! She tends to take the lead, she plans, she pays and she leads in the bedroom. I have lead in the bedroom a bit but she wants me to woo her. She wants me to take charge and take her out. I have never been to painting with a twist, o have planned a sitter for the kids, I have picked the night but honestly I don’t know where to go from there. We can’t do an over night away bc of scheduling right now. Now I get her flowers a lot and small surprises and that is what I asked her to work on and she has. I don’t want to do flowers for my date. I was thinking a fruit arrangement, dinner and then painting with a twist. Anything else?? This is to help us date each other bc the bedroom part we sizzle in but we need to date and connect to each other!!